DHARMENDRA MARRIAGES AND AFFAIRS

                             DHARMENDRA

• MARRIAGES  

     WITH PRAKASH KAUR

      

Dharmendra,popularly known as the He-man of the film industry was born on 8th december,1935 in Punjab into an Arya Samaj Jatt family.Before arriving in the film industry,he was doing job in an American Drilling company.During these days,he got married with Prakash Kaur in 1954.At that time,he was only 19 years old.From Prakash Kaur,he has two sons,Sunny Deol and Bobby Deol who are reknowned actors and two daughters,Vijeta and Ajeeta.But after joining the film industry,he married once again with the actress Hema Malini and he maintained two relations at the same time because his first wife Prakash Kaur refused him to give divorce.

     WITH HEMA MALINI


      

The dream girl Hema Malini blessed with an eye pleasing supernormal beauty,born in a simple Iyengar family became the second legal wife of the handsome he-man Dharmendra on 2nd May,1980.They were said to have a long time affair which later on converted into marriage.The gossips of their affair started during the shooting of the blockbuster film 'Sholay'.In the beginning,Hema didn't pay any attention to Dharam but as Dharam was stubborn by his nature,he made every possible attempt to grasp a special place in her heart.For this,he paid Rs.20 each time to the light boys on the set of 'Sholay' who were actually asked to disturb the scene in which Dharam was teaching Hema how to try a revolver.By applying this trick,he hugged Hema so many times during that particular scene.In this way,they came closer to each other and finally decided to get married.She also received Proposals from actor Sanjeev and Jeetendra severally.But she refused to both of them.While Hema's parents got to know about her marriage with Dharmendra,they were strongly against it as he was already married.They were forcing Hema to marry with Jeetendra.At one stage,Hema almost made up her mind to marry with Jeetendra to make her parents happy but after all,true love showed its genuine colour and both Hema and Dharmendra got coloured with wedding shades.Before the wedding,both got converted in to Islam as his first wife was not giving him divorce.Their converted name was Delawar Khan and Aisha Bi R.Chakravarty respectively.Their marriage was announced a few weeks later after they tied the knot.From Hema,Dharam has two daughters,actress Esha Deol and Ahana Deol.During the wedding,Hema had also to face opposes from Dharam's sons Sunny and Bobby.

•   AFFAIRS

        WITH MEENA KUMARI

Before falling in love with Hema ,Dharam was said to have madly in love with attractive and very talented actress Meena Kumari.It has been rumoured that Dharmendra's love for Meena was fake.Actually,he was only using Meena for making his career in film industry because at that time,Meena was much more established as an actress.And this rumour proved true when Dharamendra left Meena after getting huge sucess and money in films.Then Meena repented on her mistakes which she had done for Dharam.Actually,before the entrance of Dharam in her life she also fell in love with writer director Kamaal Amrohi and she married with him in 1952.They were leading a very happy life but Dharam came in between due to which Kamaal gave divorce to her in 1964.Now,she was a looser from both sides as she had been dumped by both men in her life.She could not tolerate this grief and got completely drowned in wine and alcohol.She became a heavy drinker during the later part of her life and due to excessive intake of liquor,her liver failed completely and she died on 31st March,1972 in a hospital in Mumbai at 40 years only.Very few people knows that Dharmendra was the actual reason for her death.

HOW BUTCHER KILLED HIS THREE SMALL INNOCENT KIDS

Children are supposed to be natural mimics.They copy or imitate any behaviour they see happening in front of them.In fact they act like their parents in spite of every attempt to teach them good manners.That's why it is said that A secure home atmosphere plays a key role in developing children's mindset and parent are the first form of positive learning.But in most cases,we find that parents are much more responsible for exploiting their children's life and future.And this type of cases are seen  mostly among uneducated parents having a negative mentality.Actually,they themselves are unaware of the fact that how and when their negative behaviour are being followed gradually by their children leaving a great impact on their undeveloped mind which in turn causes a huge loss not only to their children but to the parents as well.So,it is the only duty of the parents to provide their children a positive atmosphere with a positive frame of mind.
Here is a short story of a butcher which will help you in understanding this topic very clearly.There was a butcher and he had three small kids of 4 years,5 years and 6 years old respectively.The butcher's shop was in front part of his small home.Actually,he had parted his home into two halves and the one half  from the front side was used by him for his professional work.Whenever he used to cut the meat with a long sharpened knife,his children would enjoy very much to see the animals being slaughted and they often began to clap making a loud noise with a great laugh.But one day,the butcher went some where leaving his knife on his shop.Their children were playing just around the shop.In the mean time,his 6 year old kid saw the knife and took it into his hand with a great curiosity.He then convinced his two younger brother to go on the roof of the home for having fun with the knife by enacting  just like their father.According to the plan,the 6 year old kid hold the head of his 5 year old brother tightly and began to cut it.Suddenly,the 5 year old kid began to cry with excessive pain and a lot of blood got spreaded on the floor in no time.The poor kid died within a few second.On seeing this dreadful incident,the 4 year old kid got frightened and he rushed down the stairs to call his father in a hurry but in that hurriedness,his short feet got slipped on the smooth stairs and he fall down tumbling round and round.As a result,his head got struck with the large stone on which butcher used to chop the meats and he also died at once.After seeing his two brothers lying dead,the 6 year old kid started weeping sitting on the floor.Suddenly,the butcher returned to his shop and got stunned to see the whole scenario.On asking,the alive kid narrated the whole incident.As soon as he heard the story,he became so furious that he lost his temper and gagged his child throat with his cruel hands till the last moment of his death.In this way,he lost all of his children.