WHAT IS THE MAIN DIFFERENCE BETWEEN...............

     

                                        VS


             

What is the main difference between ANNA HAZARE'S and MAHATMA GANDHI'S protest??Can anyone answer it in only one single word.................

DHARMENDRA MARRIAGES AND AFFAIRS

                             DHARMENDRA

• MARRIAGES  

     WITH PRAKASH KAUR

      

Dharmendra,popularly known as the He-man of the film industry was born on 8th december,1935 in Punjab into an Arya Samaj Jatt family.Before arriving in the film industry,he was doing job in an American Drilling company.During these days,he got married with Prakash Kaur in 1954.At that time,he was only 19 years old.From Prakash Kaur,he has two sons,Sunny Deol and Bobby Deol who are reknowned actors and two daughters,Vijeta and Ajeeta.But after joining the film industry,he married once again with the actress Hema Malini and he maintained two relations at the same time because his first wife Prakash Kaur refused him to give divorce.

     WITH HEMA MALINI


      

The dream girl Hema Malini blessed with an eye pleasing supernormal beauty,born in a simple Iyengar family became the second legal wife of the handsome he-man Dharmendra on 2nd May,1980.They were said to have a long time affair which later on converted into marriage.The gossips of their affair started during the shooting of the blockbuster film 'Sholay'.In the beginning,Hema didn't pay any attention to Dharam but as Dharam was stubborn by his nature,he made every possible attempt to grasp a special place in her heart.For this,he paid Rs.20 each time to the light boys on the set of 'Sholay' who were actually asked to disturb the scene in which Dharam was teaching Hema how to try a revolver.By applying this trick,he hugged Hema so many times during that particular scene.In this way,they came closer to each other and finally decided to get married.She also received Proposals from actor Sanjeev and Jeetendra severally.But she refused to both of them.While Hema's parents got to know about her marriage with Dharmendra,they were strongly against it as he was already married.They were forcing Hema to marry with Jeetendra.At one stage,Hema almost made up her mind to marry with Jeetendra to make her parents happy but after all,true love showed its genuine colour and both Hema and Dharmendra got coloured with wedding shades.Before the wedding,both got converted in to Islam as his first wife was not giving him divorce.Their converted name was Delawar Khan and Aisha Bi R.Chakravarty respectively.Their marriage was announced a few weeks later after they tied the knot.From Hema,Dharam has two daughters,actress Esha Deol and Ahana Deol.During the wedding,Hema had also to face opposes from Dharam's sons Sunny and Bobby.

•   AFFAIRS

        WITH MEENA KUMARI

Before falling in love with Hema ,Dharam was said to have madly in love with attractive and very talented actress Meena Kumari.It has been rumoured that Dharmendra's love for Meena was fake.Actually,he was only using Meena for making his career in film industry because at that time,Meena was much more established as an actress.And this rumour proved true when Dharamendra left Meena after getting huge sucess and money in films.Then Meena repented on her mistakes which she had done for Dharam.Actually,before the entrance of Dharam in her life she also fell in love with writer director Kamaal Amrohi and she married with him in 1952.They were leading a very happy life but Dharam came in between due to which Kamaal gave divorce to her in 1964.Now,she was a looser from both sides as she had been dumped by both men in her life.She could not tolerate this grief and got completely drowned in wine and alcohol.She became a heavy drinker during the later part of her life and due to excessive intake of liquor,her liver failed completely and she died on 31st March,1972 in a hospital in Mumbai at 40 years only.Very few people knows that Dharmendra was the actual reason for her death.

HOW BUTCHER KILLED HIS THREE SMALL INNOCENT KIDS

Children are supposed to be natural mimics.They copy or imitate any behaviour they see happening in front of them.In fact they act like their parents in spite of every attempt to teach them good manners.That's why it is said that A secure home atmosphere plays a key role in developing children's mindset and parent are the first form of positive learning.But in most cases,we find that parents are much more responsible for exploiting their children's life and future.And this type of cases are seen  mostly among uneducated parents having a negative mentality.Actually,they themselves are unaware of the fact that how and when their negative behaviour are being followed gradually by their children leaving a great impact on their undeveloped mind which in turn causes a huge loss not only to their children but to the parents as well.So,it is the only duty of the parents to provide their children a positive atmosphere with a positive frame of mind.
Here is a short story of a butcher which will help you in understanding this topic very clearly.There was a butcher and he had three small kids of 4 years,5 years and 6 years old respectively.The butcher's shop was in front part of his small home.Actually,he had parted his home into two halves and the one half  from the front side was used by him for his professional work.Whenever he used to cut the meat with a long sharpened knife,his children would enjoy very much to see the animals being slaughted and they often began to clap making a loud noise with a great laugh.But one day,the butcher went some where leaving his knife on his shop.Their children were playing just around the shop.In the mean time,his 6 year old kid saw the knife and took it into his hand with a great curiosity.He then convinced his two younger brother to go on the roof of the home for having fun with the knife by enacting  just like their father.According to the plan,the 6 year old kid hold the head of his 5 year old brother tightly and began to cut it.Suddenly,the 5 year old kid began to cry with excessive pain and a lot of blood got spreaded on the floor in no time.The poor kid died within a few second.On seeing this dreadful incident,the 4 year old kid got frightened and he rushed down the stairs to call his father in a hurry but in that hurriedness,his short feet got slipped on the smooth stairs and he fall down tumbling round and round.As a result,his head got struck with the large stone on which butcher used to chop the meats and he also died at once.After seeing his two brothers lying dead,the 6 year old kid started weeping sitting on the floor.Suddenly,the butcher returned to his shop and got stunned to see the whole scenario.On asking,the alive kid narrated the whole incident.As soon as he heard the story,he became so furious that he lost his temper and gagged his child throat with his cruel hands till the last moment of his death.In this way,he lost all of his children.

AN IMMATURE MIND ALWAYS FINDS WEIRD IDEAS

For a while i thought Let it go,the very next moment i thought I should not let it go.Again,my mind ordered me to go ahead but my heart was pulling me back.At one point,i was totally confused between Yes and No.But ultimately,my defying mind wins the race over my coward heart and at once,i took a quick decision that YES,i will reveal this worst fact of my life to the world which happened at a very early age of mine so called when i was 7 or 8 years almost.Actually,how many times it happened with me,i have no exact idea but still i feel very ashamed and painful whenever i remember that silly awkward incident.Since childhood,aggression is in my nature literally but it's pity on me that in childhood,i could never be able to show it practically.Each time i get angry,every time i managed to suppress the anger within my mind and body specially when someone elder than me used to scold me for no strong reason.But it always kept my heart penetrating and i always thought if i could take a revenge of it from those ugly voiced persons.But one day my weird mind found a worse than worst idea to teach them a lesson without even feeling a pain of it by them.

I still remember that day when my father scolded me very badly and how much i was burning inside.After a few minutes of this incident,he sat down to take his afternoon meal which my mother gave him but she didn't give him the drinking water.Actually,it had been a trend in my family that most of the times,i used to give the drinking water to all the elders after the food being served to them.So as usual,my father ordered me to give him the water.Till that moment,my anger had not gone towards him.Suddenly, a dirty idea hitted my mind and within a minute,i took the jug and a glass,filled the water in it and sneaking here and there,i dropped a mouthful spit of mine into the water and waited for about half a second for the spit to disappear in the water so that no one could guess my offence.Then i gave the jug and and the glass full of water to my father with a sign of satisfaction and relax on my face and heart.After seeing him drinking the water,there was an unmannered smile on my face.From the day onwards,now it had become my regular habit to release my frustration in this way.The other victims apart from my father were my mother,my uncles,my grandpa,my grandma and some more persons were also in this list whom i don't remember clearly.But when i completely left this bad habit of mine,yet  it is a question mark for me.Might be........ i can speculate when i got mature enough to differentiate between the right and wrong things.And this knowledge comes normally in the age of 10 for most of the kids.So,i think same case would have happened with me.

Through this article,i apologize from the bottom of my heart to all that respectable persons who were victims of my great sin.At the same time,i strongly request to all the readers that please never repeat this offence to anyone after reading this article. 

THINK ABOUT THE MENU...................

One day God invited Ghost on a dinner and the Ghost gave compliment to God after having the dinner.Just think about the MENU??

WHAT WOULD BE THE ACTUAL REASON...................

A hydrophobic man jumps into the river water to commit a suicide,coincidently a naked wire flowing current in it also falls into the water at the same time.What you think would be the actual reason for the man's death,either by drowning or by the electric shock??

SLEPT WITH TWO BUT STILL A VIRGIN

At noon,combing her long shining hair in front of the mirror with a sweet intentional smile on her face,completely lost in the memory of her upcoming wedding.Suddenly,a hard sound of the door bell distracted her mind and leaving all the lovely feelings aroused in her bedroom,she rushed to open the door.As the door was opened,she found a tall,handsome boy with a well maintained physic,holding about a dozen of colourful bedsheets in his hands for sale.

 "Will you take it mam?Just have a glance on it",he said giving a hard stare on her soft face.

"No,I don't need it",she replied.

Boy : Please mam,just see its features.You know,this bedsheet has a unique quality.It reflects light in a completely dark room because of the radium attached in it.If you have no faith on me,I can make a proof of it right now.Would you give me your few minutes

Girl : Ok,Let me see also.

Boy : Where is your bedroom?

Girl : What?bedroom?

Boy : Just want to spread it on the bed to have a complete glance.

Girl : All right,come inside.

Both entered the room and the boy switched off the light after spreading one bedsheet on the bed and also shut the door to have complete darkness in the room.The bedsheet began to shine and some of the lights falling on the girl's face made her look more beautiful.At the very next moment,she noticed that the boy's hands were on her colorful cheeks.All of a sudden,she guessed what the boy was expecting from her.She was shivering,her body temperature got raised,she was breathing very high,her heart beat became faster and faster.Eventually,she could not resist herself falling in his strong arms and she surrendered her mind and body to him and both got intimated.

                After a few minutes,the footsteps of someone on the stairs made the boy frightened and where he disappeared in the darkness,the girl could not judge it still lying on the bed.As the sound of footsteps came nearer and nearer,she was confused whether he was the salesman returning back or someone else was coming.In this confusion,she switched on the lights but got stunned to see that the man in front of her was her renter living on the top floor.She got embarrassed but she was unaware of the fact that the renter also kept a feeling for her.After seeing the circumstances,the renter speculated the whole incident and he also wanted to take an advantage of her mistake.Getting emotionally blackmailed by him,she was compelled to get laid with him also.In half an hour,she got intimated twice with the two strangers."Oh my god!Another footsteps?What is happening with me today",she shouted.This time,it was the footsteps of her fiance who was coming to meet him privately after knowing that her parents had gone out of station and she was all alone in her house.As his footsteps were moving ahead towards her bedroom,the girl kept murmuring,"Please god,please,save me!How would i face my fiance in this situation"Save me,save me,save me..........continued murmuring these words and the very next moment,she found herself lying on the floor.Her eyes were full of tears and suddenly,she checked her body."I am still a virgin.I can't believe it.Thank god,it was only a dream.I have been saved from committing a great sin.

DEV ANAND'S MARRIAGE AND AFFAIRS

                                             DEV ANAND

• MARRIAGE    

      WITH KALPANA KARTIK


     

In one midnight in 1954,on the sets of film 'Taxi Driver',the cameraman was told to shut off the lights.Suddenly,the hero of the film holding the hand of the heroine,took her to the art room and they both exchanged their rings in the presence of marriage registrar and became husband-wife forever.This incident was not a part of that film but a real life story and the man who created  this whole unplanned scenario was evergreen actor Dev Anand and the lady was legend actress Kalpana Kartik.Her real name is Mona Singh.They kept their marriage secret for about a week and her parents came to know about it after 10-12 days.But they responded positively to their marriage.Afterwards,their marriage faced a lot of ups and downs but both managed to live together sharing the same roof till date but she do not take any interest in his public life.

• AFFAIRS

         WITH SURAIYA                                                                  

Dev Anand has always been famous for his before and after marriage affairs.He is a kind of person who easily got carried away romantically on any sweet proposal from beautiful and attractive ladies in his young ages.But among so many ladies in his life,reknowned singer-actress SURAIYA was his passionated true love.They did seven films together and their love story got revealed publicly during the shooting of film 'Afsar'.Both loved each other madly and tried hard to get married but their different religions created a great rift between them.Suraiya's maternal grandmother was dogmatically against their marriage and she threatened Suraiya that if she would marry with Dev,she will kill herself.Though Suraiya's mother was sympathetic towards their love but the grandmother had a strong influence on her.So,for the sake of her grandmother,she decided to get separated with Dev forever.Before departing,both arranged a last private meeting on the top most floor of her apartment and after meeting,both cried like a child for more than few minutes hugging each other.Suraiya also threw the ring gifted by Dev along the seaside.She remained a spinster throughout her life.She died on 31 Jan,2004 at the age of 75.Untill her death,she lived in her apartment on Marine Drive in Mumbai.


        WITH ZEENAT AMAN





   
Departing from suraiya,Dev was completely shattered and wanted to end his life but was saved by his brother Chetan Anand.He made him realize the importance of his career more than his love.Further moving ahead towards his career,Dev found hot and sexy actress ZEENAT AMAN.Influenced by her talent and beauty,he gave another chance to his heart to beat for another lady.He was all set to propose her.One night,he asked her to go out on a date with him,she agreed but insisted to go to a party the same very night before going on a date and both went to the party.But in the party,Zeenat's real face became visible to Dev.Actually,he saw actor -director Raj Kapoor flirting with Zeenat in a drunken mood and embracing her greedly.But the worst part of this incident was that Zeenat also responded to him in the same fashion infront of Dev.This struck Dev a lot and he said good-bye to this relation with a heavy heart.


          PUPPY LOVE AFFAIRS



Apart from two serious love affairs with two reknowned actresses,Dev Anand had gone through many crushes on so many ladies.His first ever crush of his life in his teen ages was on his history professor's daughter whom he never dared to propose.Another was his almost affair with a Czech interpreter which made her wife furious.There was also an on-off relation with an Irish student at Cambridge while she was working as a cleaner in his Swiss Hotel.He also shared a room with Marlon Brando's assistant in France.The news of his long-standing affair with niece of a famous star was also rumoured.Another was with  Air India Stewardess and many more like this............Above all affairs,the most sensational was that he and the famous actor Guru Dut slept with the same woman but her name was not revealed.

CHAMPAKLAL AND ROOPMATI IN A DARK ROOM

Champak Lal was a man who didn't like women.That's why,he never married with anyone.He was all alone in his life.By profession,he was a teacher and used to go for teaching sharp at 10'oclock and would returned to his home by 5'o clock.Though he did not like women but as he was a bachelor,so for his convenience,he had kept a  handmaid servant named "ROOPMATI" for his household works.Roopmati was also aware of his nature.That's why,she too maintained a distance from her owner and didn't talk with him much.They had never any informal conversation.One day when Roopmati was about to leave after finishing her work,she found her owner Champak Lal arriving at 3 p.m.She got surprised because he had never ever returned to his home so early during her work span.Ignoring him casually,Roopmati stepped towards the main door.Suddenly,he stopped her.

                                               

Champak : Roopmati,Come and have a sit here(pointing his fingers towards the bed).I have to say something to you.

(Roopmati was shocked at his behaviour.But she went near him and sat on the bed.)

Champak : Go and drop the folded curtain please.

(Roopmati did it with a fearful mind and sat againn on the bed.)

Champak : Oh,lights are coming through the window.Please close it.

(Roopmati did it hesitatingly,then again sat on the bed.)

Champak : Oh god,you forgot to shut the door.Comeon,do it hurry.

(Roopmati was very scared but somehow she managed to do it.)

Champak : Could you do one last favour?Switch off the lights also.

(This time Roopmati was damn sure that something wrong was going on in her owner's mind.But afterall,what could she do as she was his servant and could not dare to disobey his orders.So,she did it also.)

After having the lights gone off,the room was complete dark and in the darkness,champak moved his hand excitedly towards Roopmati's face and said,"Just see see,how much this radium in my wrist watch is shining in the darkness."As soon as she heard these words,she laughed very loudly.

PULL THE CHAIR BEFORE SITTING ON IT

Pranks are just like an energetic capsule in todays tiresome and busy life.Although for a few minutes but it really make us laugh and give some relief to our highly scheduled mind.Pranksters enjoy making fun of others avoiding the consequences they have to face later on.As big a prank,much bigger the risk and so are the bigger guts needed to tolerate the consequences.Among thousands of pranks happening daily around us,Pulling the chair is one of the common in an uncommon way.Have you tried it ever?If yes,then you must be smiling right now remembering that exciting scene and the consequences faced after that funny incident.I have also done it once and never got courage to repeat it again till now.Though enjoyed very much and made others the same but the scenario created just after that is unforgettable for all the members present there.Actually,i had not done it myself but manipulated my brother to do this,played smart game behind the curtain,but sorry for that poor boy for facing its violent consequences alone.Regardless the fact,i would love to store courage and make my mind to go for another chance.If anyone who is still detached from this funky prank,try at least once.Believe me,that day will become unforgettable for you and please share your experiences with me after doing this prank to anyone.

LET'S SEE HOW LONG A BEDRIDDEN WORLD IS GOING TO SURVIVE

    
A bedridden 80+ old man showing all the symptoms for his death for sure.His eyesight has become poor,skins are hanging on his bone,complexion has been faded up,digestive system has become weak,a forgetful mind with fogged memories but he still wants to remain alive,not willing to leave this world.But who can dare to make him understand that the world for which his temptations are so high,is itself in danger.Its conditions has become as worse as that of the bedridden old man who don't want to loose his existence but he can't help him out.It's a bitter truth that like others,he is also going to die one day.But it is not sure that if he will die prior to world or along with the world.Because a strong prediction by the scientists that the world is going to end by 2012 has shaken everyone's mind and heart.People are not ready to believe that they would not be a part of this world just a few years later.But they can't deny the fact that they themselves are more responsible for all this to happen.Their deliberate ignorance towards nature has created a disruption in the balance of the environment which has resulted in frequently occurring natural disasters.
     
Everywhere,we are seeing its consequences in the form of floods,droughts,fires,hurricanes,extreme rise and fall in temperatures,earthquakes e.t.c........So,there is no harm in saying that the world has grown old and anytime,it can die its own death.Let's see how long this bedridden world is going to survive??